If you could see the look on your face right now, what would you see? Would your jaw be locked? Your forehead scrunched with worry or concentration? Would you see a relaxed expression or one of stress? Imagine you could offer yourself a massage that could ease those worry lines!

We’ve all been there. Muscle tension is a common response to stress. When you feel your shoulders creeping to your ears, neck complaining, jaw tightening, headache starting, try this massage for well-being.

Before watching the video below, prepare yourself and your environment:

  • Sit in a way that allows you to feel well-supported. If possible, place the soles of your feet on the ground, for strength and stability.
  • Limit your digital distractions (consider your phone’s “Do Not Disturb” setting, or turn the volume off). Your attention and intention should be on self-care.
  • Hydrate with water and have more water nearby. Tight muscles can create a traffic jam with reduced circulation. You want to hydrate, soften and help fluids move.
  • Wash and dry your hands thoroughly before and after.
  • Remove jewelry, placing directly nearby.
  • Review clothing around forearms. If tight or confining, consider rolling up your sleeves or removing your jacket.
  • Avoid injured areas, including cuts, bruises, rashes, swelling, bandages or broken skin. If need be, apply pressure to only one side of your body.
  • Apply moderate, consistent pressure. Respect your body. If you tend to bruise easily or are taking blood thinners, use gentle pressure.

This head and neck massage, guided by Dr. Sharon M. Weinstein from the Salt Lake City VA Health Care System will have you relaxed in just 15 minutes:

There are many ways to nurture your physical and emotional health, and the options can feel overwhelming. Start with VA’s Circle of Health to find self-care tools and guidance which can help build your health, well-being and quality of life.

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10 Comments

  1. Jackson Hendrix May 2, 2025 at 20:11 - Reply

    I am 100% Disable and Homebound. I receive VA thru the Durham VA MC at their
    Raleigh 1 Office. I have severe back, shoulder and hip pain. A local CITC provider is my Pain Manager. I have a friend who gets weekly full body massages and said it relieves the pain. Is it possible that the VA CITC program could contract a local provider to provide massage therapy for my pain issues. If yes, how do I apply?

  2. Bruce Blowers May 2, 2025 at 08:48 - Reply

    Massage is essential, am 76, am a massage therapist since 1984 in albuquerque.

  3. S. Ritter May 1, 2025 at 21:06 - Reply

    It would be nice if we didn’t have to go through so many hoops just to get massage therapy.

  4. PATRICIA BLAKNEY, USAF RET May 1, 2025 at 19:09 - Reply

    Thank yo7 so much! This was exhausting yet truly and remarkably relaxing and invigorating at the same time!

  5. Scott Nelson (SFC RET USA) May 1, 2025 at 14:18 - Reply

    I have been paying for Massage Therapy and Chiropractic Adjustments for the last 15 years because Tricare won’t pay for services that keep me mobile. I was an Infantryman for 21 years and Airborne for 15 of those years. I stay mobile at 71 years old by going to gym 3 days a week, Chiropractic & Massage Therapy visits once a month, Physical Therapy when needed, and time on an Invertor table. But Tricare refuses to pay for these service, but if I needed $200,000 worth of surgery, they would pay. These policies don’t even make sense!!

    • Paul Richardson May 1, 2025 at 21:33 - Reply

      Yes Sir; I am an Air Force retired disabled veteran with various bone issues @70 yoa. I usually walk a lot in Dublin Georgia 31021, to help with my structural pain. +++ other light exercising. A&P licensed mechanic.

    • Bruce Blowers May 9, 2025 at 08:46 - Reply

      I am a massage therapist in the albuquerque,NM area. I have been a practicing therapist since 1984. I understand the VA is now seeking therapists. I am looking for a position. Bruce

  6. Maria J camel peralez May 1, 2025 at 02:02 - Reply

    A wonderful massage thank you

  7. Roger Umbarger April 25, 2025 at 15:58 - Reply

    i would like to see more videos

  8. Latosha Rabb April 24, 2025 at 23:46 - Reply

    Is there any VA approved physical therapy or massage parlors in Mobile, Alabama?

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