Our Veterans, like most people, can become susceptible to loneliness during the holidays. This can happen for a variety of reasons, such as social isolation, the loss of a loved one or family member, financial difficulties, mental health struggles or just having unrealistic expectations.
Having the right tactics and strategy can be a real help for Veterans who face holiday loneliness. Below are some tips to help get you through the next few months:
- Reach out to friends and family. Even if you can’t be together in person, make time to talk or video chat with your loved ones. Let them know how you’re feeling and what would be helpful for you.
- Connect with other Veterans. There are many Veteran support groups and tools from VA that serve as a great way to meet others who understand what you’re going through.
- Volunteer your time. Volunteering is a great way to give back to your community and to feel connected to others. There are many different volunteer opportunities available, so you can find something that interests you and that also fits your schedule.
- Take care of yourself. Make sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods and exercising regularly. These things can help to improve your mood and reduce stress.
- Seek professional help if needed. If you’re struggling to cope with loneliness or other mental health issues, don’t be afraid to seek professional help from VA. The resources available can provide you with support and guidance on how to manage your symptoms and improve your quality of life.
Planning and compassion can really help
Having compassion for yourself and understanding that you are not alone with loneliness during the holidays is a great first step, but there are other steps you can take to help yourself as well:
- Plan ahead. If you know that you’ll be feeling lonely around the holidays, start planning activities and events in advance. This will give you something to look forward to and help you to stay busy.
- Be realistic. Don’t expect to feel happy and festive all the time. It’s okay to feel sad or lonely, especially if you’re missing loved ones.
- Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to feel your emotions, and don’t judge yourself for feeling lonely.
- Remember that you’re not alone. Many people struggle with loneliness, especially during the holidays. There are people who care about you and want to help.
About Robert A. McDonald
Army Veteran Bob McDonald worked at Procter & Gamble for 33 years, with the last four as chairman, president and chief executive officer. Following his career at P&G, he was selected by President Obama in 2014 to head the Department of Veterans Affairs. While at the helm, he helped transform the Department into one that truly delivered better care for our military Veterans.
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No family, friends or otherwise. My Father passed away in November 2020. My Mom passed away February 2023.
I live alone with no or little contact with public. I have Anxiety disorder, PTSD, Depression, Bipolar and Back injury.
Can you help? My system is getting worse because all of this loneliness, Etc.
Thank you,
Kevin DuBoise
Kevin I would love to be your pen pal
Please email me anytime
Hope everyone can enjoy a safe and peaceful holiday . I think that’s more important than having a happy one or a merry one. May God Bless all souls this holiday… May he stop the death and destruction , even for a short time would be a welcome gift…
Everyone is dead now. My friend’s
Are gone, and it’s hard to comuitcate
to people, do to my cancer surgery.
My family have there own kids now.
I cannot eat regular food, I’m on a feeding tube, so it makes any get-together, uncomfortable for them.
Hello Fred. I’m really sorry this all happened. That sounds really hard. If you’d like to talk I’d be open. If that’s too much you can contact the veterans crisis line at 988 option 1.
Wow Fred I’m sorry and I’ll pray for you.
I’m sorry Fred. There must be caregivers around you. They are your family and friends now. Mine are gone too. You can email me any time. Also facebook. Writing poetry helps me.