Each month, VA’s Center for Women Veterans profiles a different woman Veteran author as part of its Women Veteran Authors Book Corner. This month’s author is Army Veteran Anita “Nikki” Gibbs-Bratton, who served as a 77F Petroleum Supply Specialist and who wrote a memoir called “Not Easy Being Me.” 

In “Not Easy Being Me,” Gibbs-Bratton offers insight into the good and bad of being a female in the U.S. Army, as well as the notion that rank doesn’t mean more privilege. She writes about “moving with the flow of things until her time was up,” and how she “maneuvered her way throughout life on hope and faith.”

The Center for Women Veterans recently spoke to her about her service and the writing process.

Anita “Nikki” Gibbs-Bratton

What are you doing now?

I am a social worker, author, poet and actor. I assist disabled Veterans, the elderly and homeless people.

Where and when did you serve?

Ft. Bragg, N.C.; Fort Hood, TX; Ft. Stewart, GA; Camp Stanley, Korea.

What was your proudest service memory?

I was a proud soldier. I felt like joining made a difference in my and other lives. I enjoy helping others.

What was your inspiration for writing?

I wanted others to know that despite difficult obstacles, with faith, patience and the will power, they can make it!

How has your military experience shaped your creativity or how you express yourself?

I am extremely alert, less trusting, and I am Army strong. If I can survive the military, I can do anything I put my mind to.

What advice would you give other women Veterans who are considering writing about their experiences?

It is better to release all that balled up emotions/feelings. Be free!

How can women Veteran authors shape society’s understanding of women Veterans’ military experience?

There are so many problems faced that others don’t know about. People need to know our struggles, pain and above all, our accomplishments.

What were some of your obstacles and challenges in writing this book?

The flashbacks. The calls from those that hurt me. Several people apologized for their roles that caused me agony. Several people are upset. I do not apologize for telling my truth.

What is one significant thing we should know about you?

I am happy with my life and the decisions that I’ve made.

How has writing this book helped you?

I have less stress and headaches since writing this book and I have a clear mind.

What is your favorite quote?

“When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot, and hold on,” by Franklin D. Roosevelt.

If you could choose one woman from any point in time to share a meal with, who would she be?

Harriett Tubman.

Are you a woman Veteran author, or do you know of one?

If so, please visit our website to find out more information. If you have further questions, contact the CWV Outreach Program Manager Michelle Terry at Michelle.Terry2@VA.gov.

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