CWV Book Corner, October: Carolyn Johnson-Graham

This month’s CWV Book Corner author is Army Veteran Carolyn Johnson-Graham (C. Jai Graham), who served as a chemical specialist from 1997-2006. She wrote “I’m Working On Me.” The book discusses topics like self-care, setting boundaries and learning how to cultivate a personal strength.

Can you tell us about your military experience?

I spent three years active duty (six years Army Reserve) as a chemical specialist. I completed basic training at Ft. McClellan, AL, and was stationed in Ft. Campbell, KY. I was able to travel to other bases, including Ft. Bragg, Ft. Polk, and one year, TDY in Ft. Hood, TX.

What inspired you to write a book and share your story as a woman Veteran?

I have always loved to read and write. I journaled a lot. However, in my adult years, I didn’t write much. I began to intentionally journal and fell in love with it all over again. I wrote my first book from journal entries. My latest book was inspired by challenges I faced in life and the personal journey of becoming a better version of myself that would assist in overcoming those challenges.

How has your military background influenced your writing style and the themes you explore in your work?

I believe my military experience influenced me as a writer. Helping people understand the importance of discipline, having a plan and strategy, as well as being aware of what’s going on in you and around you, so that you can think critically and sometimes quickly when necessary.

How do you hope your book will impact other women Veterans, active duty service members, and the general public?

Whether you’re a Veteran, active duty or general public, we will experience changes and will transition through different stages of life and being, even if we don’t want to. It’s best to be prepared for those changes and transitions so that you can minimize the negative impact that not being prepared can bring.

What role do you think storytelling and literature play in fostering understanding and support for the women Veteran’s community?

Women can relate to a good story. Everyone has a story. Being able to tell our stories in ways that people can see themselves or the people they love in those stories allows us to comprehend that we all are connected. Supporting the women’s Veteran community is like supporting yourself or someone you love.

Can you share a memorable experience or anecdote from your time in the military that has had a lasting impact on your life and writing?

My writing is straightforward, doesn’t contain fluff, and is practical in nature. In the military, learning how to effectively and accurately fire a weapon has had a lasting impact on my life. You’re sure to hit what you’re aiming for, whether that’s something or nothing. When you’re learning to hit the target, you might miss it on the first go. But when you zero your weapon, become proficient at your breathing technique, and focus your sight on your target, after much practice, you’ll hit the target. And so it is in line with our personal and professional goals. My writing has become the same way as it is with hitting my target.

Are there any fellow women Veteran authors or books that have inspired or resonated with you? If so, could you tell us a bit about them?

There is one young lady, who has not released her book yet, but we had a chance to discuss her journey of being lost in the wilderness during a hiking trip. Because of her military experience, she was able to survive. And she’s back out hiking! It inspired me and demonstrated the resilience and perseverance of women Veterans who may have endured some unfair practices and treatment to become who they are and achieve what they set out to achieve.

How do you believe the Women Veterans Book Corner can help bring awareness to the civilian and military communities, particularly about women Veterans?

The book corner can bring awareness by continuing to spotlight authors in the current way, as well as discover other opportunities to make the community aware, including events that are open to the public and sponsorships for women Veterans. Work with the local community VA centers to celebrate the accomplishments of their local women Veterans. Keep saturating all platforms with our faces, or contributions and needed support.

What advice do you have for other women Veterans or active duty service members who may be considering writing about their experiences?

Understand that you have a voice and a story that is significant and should be heard. Don’t look to make a profit, look to put your book in the hands of that one person whose life will exponentially be transformed as a result of you being brave enough to tell your story, or a story they can see themselves in.

How has writing this book helped you?

It has helped me stay committed to the process and its completion, as it took me four years to write the book and there were obstacles along the way. It helped me to reconnect to myself in some aspects so that I could appreciate who I was and who I am. It helped me to celebrate me because I deserve to be celebrated as much as I celebrate others.

Can you tell us about any upcoming projects or events you’re involved in?

In April 2023, I launched ATTIRE Lifestyle Magazine. It contains content to assist people with information and practical tools to transform their lives, to develop personally and professionally. In April 2024, I will host my first Author’s Tea for authors to showcase their literary brilliance for the community to support.