A caregiver’s journey with advance care planning

Seventy-five-year-old Vietnam War Army Veteran Rick Tupper started experiencing complications from heart disease, diabetes and dementia. His challenges became more acute when he accidentally took too much medication one day. It was then that his wife Tina realized he needed more care and support, so she retired early to become his full-time caregiver. Tina soon realized she was in uncharted territory.

Tina’s path to wellness centered on Rick’s dementia diagnosis. His psychiatrist recommended she join the VA Advance Care Planning via Group Visits Program. Tina dove into the caregiver support group, attending weekly meetings to gather strategies for managing Rick’s care and maintaining her own well-being.

Caregiving is not a journey to be taken alone

Tina credits the transformative impact of the program and VA services for the couple’s adjustment to recent changes. Despite the financial strain of early retirement, she feels equipped to handle the changes, knowing she has the necessary tools and support systems in place. She thanks VA for helping maintain their quality of life as much as possible given their circumstances.

Tina highlights the sense of belonging and understanding that comes from connecting with others facing similar challenges. Through these interactions, she has not only received practical advice but also found emotional solace in knowing she’s not alone on this journey.

She also encourages caregivers to remember the importance of seeking help and prioritizing self-care. She acknowledges the tendency to feel isolated, but encourages others to lean on VA resources for guidance and support. She feels the role of caregiver support programs is vital in navigating the complexities of caring for a loved one. Through education, community and access to resources, she found empowerment and resilience in the face of adversity.

VA Advance Care Planning via Group Visits Program

The ACP-GV program provides group settings at local VA facilities for caregivers to discuss advance care planning and learn from each other’s personal experiences. They can attend on their own or bring someone from their personal support system. Veterans are always welcome. You can contact the local ACP-GV site lead for current group offerings.

Caregiver Support Program

CSP promotes the health and well-being of Veterans’ caregivers through education, resources, support and services. Every VA facility has a CSP team that provides valuable information about resources to help caregivers stay informed and supported as they support Veterans. More information can be found on CSP’s website and by contacting local CSP teams. To learn more, watch CSP’s SITREP podcast.