Shar-Ron Buie spent 25 years in prison, was homeless and lost his daughter prior to VA helping him turn his life around. Now the Marine Corps Veteran dedicates his life to helping other Veterans thanks to VA’s HUD-VASH program.
Buie was raised by his grandmother. They never lived in a single location for more than a year, and he found himself shooting at someone when he was 11.
A few years later, he found the military.
“When I left for the Marine Corps, I was floundering. I didn’t believe it was possible for me to do anything but go to prison, shoot someone or be killed,” he said.
During his four years in the Marines, he served as an audio visual technician and as a Training NCO. Two years after his discharge, Buie was convicted of intentional homicide and sentenced to life in prison after getting into an altercation with someone else carrying a gun. After lobbying for his release and being denied parole 19 times, Buie was released after 25 years.
Did not let those years go to waste… earned degrees
“While I was in prison, I completed my bachelor’s degree in business and almost completed my master’s degree in criminal justice. I did end up getting my master’s degree from UW-Platteville after my release, and now I’m getting a Ph.D. in criminal justice. I teach College Success at Marquette University where I’m also the associate director of the Education Preparedness Program,” he said.
Despite his accomplishments in and out of prison, adapting to life after prison wasn’t easy.
“After I was released, I was officially homeless. I was able to stay with my sister for a bit, but I had no idea where to turn. I remembered hearing about VA’s HUD-VASH program while in prison and decided to call and see what they could do,” he continued.
Buie applied for and was approved for HUD-VASH funding. The program helps homeless Veterans and their families find and sustain permanent housing and access to health care, mental health treatment, substance use counseling and other resources they need. With the aid of the program, Buie began moving his life in the right direction again.
“I got an apartment before using the VA home loan program to purchase my own condo. Ever since my discharge, I’ve used my education and knowledge to assist other Veterans by connecting them to resources, providing peer support and legal services to impacted and marginalized individuals,” he added.
“Resources are there if you connect.”
His daughter, Carrie, was always his motivation. She died suddenly in 2018 at the age of 31, and it changed the course of his life.
“When she died, I realized none of this was about me anymore. I made a commitment to smile every single day and to help someone every single day. I’m going to make a difference and that’s because of my daughter. If I was to allow my situation to consume me, if I were to allow myself to be upset all the time, what sort of disservice am I doing to Carrie?” he asked.
Buie credits VA’s HUD-VASH program for him successfully transitioning from prison and achieving the goals he set. His only regret is not discovering VA and its services in 1982 upon his discharge.
“I’m a patriot. I’m a Marine. I love VA. My problems have been brought on by my own ignorance. But the resources are available for everyone who wants it. The receiver is the key. The resources are there if you connect. It would have made all the difference in my life back then. It did make all the difference in my life in 2020.”
Here’s information about the HUD-VASH program.
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How can more Veterans get assistance if the “system” let’s them down! My brother was in the Gulf War and came home unable to sleep! He received no help from the VA and turned to drinking alcohol to get sleep! Which ended up with him now in a 5 year prison sentence do the the attorney he paid in full for assistance him in getting help for a DUI! Instead of taking it to a DUI court or a Veterans Court system that assists in Veterans with military issues – that attorney sent him into a system that he gets kickbacks from for placing him in a long-term sentence that does not help him but hurts him!!! How messed up is this!!!
Another amazing story of the resilience of the American Veteran.
Anton cooper United States marine corps plz send contact information thanks devil!
I have a very similar story!